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Our society is made up of many, many people. Within our society individuals hold differing opinions about a vast array of topics and ideas. But one idea that society seems to agree upon is that we shouldn’t judge people.
“Don’t
judge me,” has become a catchphrase that gets thrown around quite a bit in our
day and age. But sometimes it’s hard to determine exactly what a person means.
It
helps to have a little context to determine exactly what a person is saying about
not being judged. For example, an anonymous writer once wrote…
“Don’t judge me by my past, I don’t
live there anymore.”
I
think we can all agree that judging a person because of things they’ve said or
done in the past is a mistake. People make mistakes. And people change. None of
us would like to be defined by the stupid things we’ve said, or the foolish things
we’ve done.
Jesus
himself warned his disciples about judging people with this sort of shallow and
unforgiving judgment. He said,
“…Do not judge, or you too will be
judged. 2 For in the same way you judge others, you will be
judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you” (Matthew 7:1-2 NIV).
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But
sometimes when our society says we shouldn’t judge people, they really mean is
that it’s wrong to tell someone that what they’re doing is bad. Who are YOU to
tell ME that I’m a bad person? Stop judging me by YOUR morals.
This
way of thinking would be correct if we were just imposing our own personal
standards on the actions of others. But when we apply GOD’S standards on the
actions of others, the whole conversation changes.
We
DON’T have the right to insist that other people do things our way, or use the
words WE deem appropriate. But God does. God is the Creator of all things: galaxies
and planets; earth, sea, and sky; plants, animals, and every human being. As
the Creator of all things, God has EVERY right to tell us how to live our
lives.
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In
America we cherish our freedom. For the most part, we can do and say whatever
we want. If we want to be self centered and rude, we can do that. If we want to
say whatever comes to mind, regardless of what damage our mouths may cause, we
can. If we want to live lives dedicated to doing whatever feels good at the
moment, we can. And for the most part, our government says we have to let
others do the same.
But
that doesn’t make it right in God’s eyes. And just because WE CAN, doesn’t mean
there won’t be consequences in the end. The sinner who stands before God on the
day of Final Judgment and screams, “Who are YOU to judge ME?!”, will find that
God’s judgment is final and all the human opinion in the world doesn’t change
what is truly right and good.
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As
followers of the true God, you and I are obligated to use our voices to tell
the world what is right and wrong. God commands us to do this because he loves
the human race, and wants us all to see how messed up and sinful we really are.
He wants us to see how sinful we are so that we can see how gracious He was
when he sent His Son to take our sins away through his suffering and death.
Don’t
let society cloud your mind when it comes to “judging others.” When we say what
God says, we’re not haters. We’re not judging people unfairly. When we really
speak the truth in love, we’re doing what our Creator and Savior has called us
to do.
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As
Christians we know that when Jesus suffered on the cross he was suffering God’s
judgment for each and every sin ever committed by human hands. We know that
through faith in Jesus we get credit for his sinless life. We know that each
and every time we bring our sins to God, his response is the same. He says, “Be
at peace, in Christ your sin is forgiven.”
But
if we begin to see our sins as “okay” and stop bringing them to Christ for
forgiveness, then our sins will remain on us, and our faith will die.
This
is exactly what God doesn’t want to happen to his people. And so in our Bible
reading for today, Jesus teaches us how to respond to sins committed by our
fellow Christians.
May
the Holy Spirit bless our hearts and minds through our Savior’s teaching. Amen.
Matthew
18:15-20 (NASB)
15 “If
your brother sins, go and show him his fault in private; if he listens to you,
you have won your brother.
16 “But
if he does not listen to you, take
one or two more with you, so that by the
mouth of two or three witnesses every fact
may be confirmed.
17 “If
he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if he refuses to
listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.
18 “Truly
I say to you, whatever you bind on earth shall have been bound in heaven; and
whatever you loose on earth shall have been loosed in heaven.
19 “Again
I say to you, that if two of you agree on earth about anything that they may
ask, it shall be done for them by My Father who is in heaven.
20 “For
where two or three have gathered together in My name, I am there in their
midst.”
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To
begin with, it’s good to remember that Jesus spoke these words to his
followers. This was how Jesus wanted his people to respond to sins among them.
The American idea of living your own way and letting everyone else live theirs
doesn’t apply in God’s family. It is our responsibility to hold each other
accountable, for the safety of our own souls, and the safety of those around
us.
Jesus
says that when I see one of his sheep starting to wander, I need to do
something about it.
First
of all, I’m to go and confront that person privately. I know most of us aren’t
fans of confrontation, but there’s really no other word for it. Even when we
use the most carefully chosen words, in the most compassionate tone, if we’re
saying “Hey, what you’re doing here is SIN” we’re confronting a person. There’s
just no way around it.
But
Jesus says this confrontation doesn’t have to be public. Not at the start. In
fact, it shouldn’t be public at the start. It should be one concerned Christian
to another.
And
in so many cases, this is all that it will take. The sheep know the voice of
their shepherd, right? It just takes one of us to be God’s voice.
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But
sometimes sin has taken a deeper hold. Sometimes sin has muffled the ears of
the sheep, and it takes a small chorus of voices to make God’s voice heard.
Jesus
says that if the first effort fails, I should take one or two other people and
try again.
In
a court of law you can call a single witness to the stand, and that will mean
SOMETHING to the jury. But if you call multiple witnesses to the stand and they
all say the SAME THING, that carries more weight.
Maybe
you’ve experienced this in your own life. The voice of one person can easily be
dismissed, but when a number of people who you know care about you are saying
the same thing, that sinks in a little deeper.
And
in many cases, this is all that it takes. A small chorus echoing the words of our
God and Savior reminds the wandering Christian what his Savior’s voice sounds
like.
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But
sometimes it takes the whole choir.
Jesus
says that if a Christian refuses to hear some of the congregation, the whole
congregation needs to get involved.
Remember,
this isn’t about ganging up on a person to publicly humiliate them. Jesus is
talking about tearing a person away from the grip of sin and hell and restoring
them to peace and forgiveness in the family of God. This is the unified voice
of a person’s fellowship telling them, “Hey, watch out! You’re heading down a
soul killing path! Turn around!”
Sadly,
when it gets to this point it’s often too late. A person mired in a sinful way
of life sees hands reached out to help as the hands of enemies, and not the
hands of friends. All sorts of things get in the way of repentance at this
point. Pride and embarrassment serve to drive a person deeper into the hole
they’ve fallen into. And that’s why as a congregation we need to proceed with
the utmost care to make sure people can see that Christ’s love is the driving
force behind what we’re doing.
Even
at this point, the Holy Spirit has the power to change hearts. The power to
scoop up a sinner from the brink of unbelief and place them safely back in the
arms of our Savior.
And
this is what Jesus had in mind when he laid out this template for his disciples
to follow. Jesus once told a parable about sheep. He said,
“What man of you, having a hundred
sheep, if he has lost one of them, does not leave the ninety-nine in the open
country, and go after the one that is lost, until he finds it? 5 And when he has found
it, he lays it on his shoulders, rejoicing. 6 And when he comes home, he calls together his
friends and his neighbors, saying to them, ‘Rejoice with me, for I have found
my sheep that was lost.’ 7 Just
so, I tell you, there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents
than over ninety-nine righteous persons who need no repentance” (Luke 15:4-7 ESV).
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But
sadly, despite our efforts, sheep still slip away.
It’s
at this point that the fellowship is forced to change how they think. If a
sinner remains hardened against God’s correction, Jesus says that the fellowship
is no longer to receive that person as a follower of Christ.
In
verse 18 Jesus says,
“Truly I say to you, whatever you
bind on earth shall have been bound in heaven; and whatever you loose on earth
shall have been loosed in heaven” (Matthew 18:18 NASB).
In
other words, when a congregation says that an individual is now excluded from the
fellowship, and severed from Christ’s salvation, it’s not the congregation that
is shutting the door to heaven. Rather, God has already done that as a result
of the sinner’s refusal to be corrected and restored by faith in Christ’s
atoning sacrifice.
On
the other hand, when a sinner repents, it is not the congregation that is
opening the door of heaven. Rather, God has already done that by moving the
sinner to repent of their sin and trust in Christ for forgiveness. The
congregation is merely announcing what has already taken place.
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Now,
if as a congregation we take our Savior’s words to heart, and take action to
safeguard each other from the faith destroying effects of sin—we’re gonna get
called “haters.” We’re gonna get labeled as people who judge others.
But
what would you want your fellow Christians to do if YOU were the sinner? If YOU
were being lulled to sleep by Satan’s lies? What would you want your fellow
Christians to do if YOU were the wandering sheep edging closer and closer to
that lurking, black shape on the edge of the forest?
You’d
want them to call you back! You’d want them to do everything they could to pull
you back to safety! So dear Christians, for goodness sake, do to others what
you would want them to do for you! Speak up in love! Don’t let indecision and
fear cause you to drag your feet until it’s too late.
Reach
out! Be God’s hands. Be God’s voice. Speak the law. Speak the Gospel. And let
the Savior who has made his home in your heart shepherd his lambs!
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When
sheep wander, it’s our responsibility to go after them and try to bring them
back safely to foot of Christ’s cross. May Christ Jesus help us to fulfill this
responsibility out of love for our fellow sheep. And may Jesus help us to do it
the way our Savior directs.
Prayer: Lord
Jesus, your words aren’t hard to understand. But they can be hard for us to
follow. Our spirits are willing, but our flesh is weak. Empower us with your
love, and by your Holy Spirit so that we hold our fellow Christians dear.
Empower us with your forgiveness, that we might also forgive them, and reach
out to restore them to repentance and faith. And when we stumble, and are in
need of correction Lord, help us to hear your voice clearly. Lead us to turn
away from sin, and back to you in faith. Amen.
The peace of God, which surpasses
all understanding, will keep your hearts, and your minds, in Christ Jesus.