Theme: Stability isn’t Flashy, but it is Fulfilling
1. Stability in your
family
2. Stability in your
faith
One thing I really enjoy are Geico commercials.
I don’t know what it is but I feel like they have perfected the art of
advertising. I mean, you have to give them some credit that they are able to
make something as bland as insurance entertaining and funny. That’s the thing
about Geico commercials, they use humor. They play to the ironic and bizarre
aspects of life. You may have seen on television that Geico is now offering a
contest where people can vote on their favorite Geico commercial. Perusing the
website brought back a few memories and lots of laughs.
One of the more recent Geico ad campaigns was
focused on getting more from Geico. You might remember some of these
commercials which usually contain a dialogue between two people doing some
ordinary task. In one commercial there is yard work being done. In another, two
neighbors are placing Christmas decorations around their yards. As one of the
people is describing their savings from Geico, each back and forth scene change
includes more items. As the insurance savings are described, the frame
literally gets more and more items. It’s a clever way to reinforce their goal,
get more savings with Geico.
A funny ad like that also plays to our emotions
because we experience the same thing in life. Some people are better at things
than we are. Some do have more. One person may think they’ve accomplished
something well only to find out soon after that someone else has done it
better. More and more is the direction we strive after.
When thinking about God’s work, we have to
admit that He does it all the very
best. No one is able to do more than He can, as the people humbly confessed of
Jesus, “He does all things well (Mark
7:37).” Who would dare suggest that we could improve upon something God has
done? Certainly, none of us. Yet, we often live as if we believe we can. We
often get discontent with God’s way of doing things, with His order, His
creation, and His plan. We often live and act like we know better, like we can
improve upon His way. This isn’t part of a funny commercial. There is a limit
to what is actually more. We’re reminded of that fact today in a Psalm about
family and the blessings God provides through it. In today’s lesson we see that
God’s plan – stability, isn’t flashy, but it is fulfilling. We read:
Psalm
128 A song of ascents. How happy
is everyone who fears the LORD, who walks in His ways! 2 You will surely eat
what your hands have worked for. You will be happy, and it will go well for you. 3 Your wife
will be like a fruitful vine within your house, your sons, like young olive
trees around your table. 4 In this very way the man who fears the LORD will be blessed. 5 May the LORD bless
you from Zion, so that you will see the prosperity of Jerusalem all the days of
your life 6 and will see your children's children! Peace be with Israel.
This psalm is the 9th of 15 in a compilation
called the songs of ascent. No one knows for sure what this title refers to but
it’s generally thought to indicate that these were worship songs used on the
way up to Jerusalem for certain festivals. As pilgrims from around Israel would
file into Jerusalem they would sing these psalms as reminders of the LORD’s
blessings. Blessing is really the key concept here. We see the blessings of
family, children, a spouse, prosperity, occupation, and even peace. These are
all blessings that focus on normal life. But it’s not really any of these
things per se that the LORD hones in on. The overall theme is stability.
Stability in my family life. Stability in my job. Stability in my society. And
the key to this stability is that the LORD gives more. More than we expect and more than we deserve.
These blessings sound very special, and they
are. But the danger is that they are equally easy to neglect and take for
granted. So quickly, they also become afterthoughts in our pursuit of more or
more. That’s because what we often pursue is based on what is flashy. Think of things
that are trendy and popular – things we see other people having and we want.
The flashiness of our desires really has discontentment and coveting at its
core. And the more we get the more we want. This is the unsatisfied pursuit of
blessings. Behind every proper blessing from God is also the potential of a
curse if we misuse it from God’s intended purpose.
The more stable, moderating, and God-pleasing
blessings are often forsaken as ordinary and undesirable. Yet, both God and
experience teach us that the most stable blessings are also the most
fulfilling. Work, Family, Society. These are the staples of life. Each of these
three blessings are inherent to a healthy world. And each of the three are
connected to the other. But, one thing they are not is flashy.
Instead of viewing
work as a calling from the Lord to serve Him and others, it’s easy for us to
see it as a chore and obligation. We let this mindset dominate our thinking and
we put in minimum effort with a cynical attitude that it won’t make a difference
anyway in the long run. We’re just there to punch the clock.
How many of us make
genuine, quality time for our family? Amidst the busyness of life do we take
time to have meaningful conversations with children, looking at each day as a
gift from God to lead them closer to heaven? Is the Word of God heard in our
homes? Are we able to press to pause button for just a few minutes to read it
or to offer prayer? Have we established a habit for our children, for our
marriages, that leads us to the foot of the cross? Or are we too busy streaming
the next form of media, binging the latest show, or simply going our separate
ways?
Most of us are
concerned enough about our society. We listen to the news. We read the
newspapers. We’re aware of what is going on. But, where is the hope? Talk about
sad and despondent reports – every evening we’re consumed by all the wrong
things that are happening in the world. Adding insult to injury there seems to
be so little we can do to improve things and to right the wrongs. Maybe it’s
just better to avoid it. Yet, we quickly forget the connection that God makes
here between our personal lives and our society. We can make a big difference
in the world in how we carry ourselves, whether or not we speak of and live our
faith, and what we pass down to our children. The individual home is the
foundation of our society. When one suffers, it reflects on the other.
All these amazing blessings and potential for a
happy life at our fingertips – given by God. Yet, at the same time so many of
them seem so far out of reach. Stability is key. It’s not flashy, but it is
fulfilling. Through the stability of these seemingly common and ordinary
blessings, we see the more of what
God offers. In verses 1 and 2 the psalmist talks about happiness. How happy is everyone who fears the LORD, who walks in His ways! 2
You will surely eat what your hands have worked for. You will be happy, and it will go well
for you. He builds on this thought by describing aspects of a happy home.
These are tremendous blessings. Blessings from God. Blessings that bring
fulfillment to our lives.
Yet, the LORD can give even more. The psalmist
continues by saying, 4 In this very way
the man who fears the LORD will be blessed. 5
May the LORD bless you from Zion. Happiness
and blessedness are synonymous terms in the Bible. It is in these ways that God
wants us to be happy. Not in that we get what we want or we see the fulfillment
of our desires. Rather, that we humbly receive what He gives. Things like: a
good job, a loving family, and a healthy society.
Yet, there’s also a reason why the two words
are translated differently. There’s a reason why “happy” is used in verses 2-3
and “blessed” is used in verses 4-5. Those words mean something different too
and they highlight what God gives that is far beyond what we can even receive.
In verses 2 and 3, with the word happy, the psalmist is describing a word that
refers to an important blessings, but blessings that are a normal part of life.
In verses 4-5, with the word “blessed,” the psalmist uses a word that is only
used in the Bible to refer to what God does and what God gives.
This is the progression. All blessings come
from God. In that sense they are all at the root of truly fulfilling happiness.
But, there’s an aspect of God’s grace and power that goes even beyond the
typical blessing. It’s not about the object involved. In both words the LORD
connects work, family, and society. The special power is in the One who gives.
Jesus said in Matthew 7: Matthew 7:11
"If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children,
how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who
ask Him!
God is able to give more. Not in the sense that
automatically comes to mind. Not in a flesh-gratifying, flashy, get ‘what I
want and when I want it’ type way. But, in God’s own way, through God’s own
power, and in His abundant mercy and grace. And always remember, these amazing
blessings are always about stability. God doesn’t want your happiness to be fleeting
or temporary. He wants you to have something that lasts. So often we pass up
what God gives because it doesn’t seem to be what we want. But we lose so much
more in the process.
The heart of the gospel, God’s love for sinners
in His Son, is at the core of each of His blessings. He wants you to believe
and trust that. And the gospel changes our perception of blessing and happiness
by showing us how much more God can give. It causes us to take a difference
perspective at what God gives. So, when it comes to your job, recognize it as a
calling. Take time to thank Him for being able to work, for having a job no
matter how miniscule or insignificant it may feel like. Look at it as
opportunity to serve, not as a chore. See it as a way that God preserves and prospers
your time of grace, to hear His Word, to repent in humility, and to receive
pardon in Christ.
The gospel changes your perception of family.
It leads you to make time for your family – for your kids. Not just time
driving around to school or running errands. Not just time for soccer or
basketball practice, or going out to eat. Make time to share and receive the
God’s Word and sacrament with your children. Let the Word of Christ dwell in
your home richly in all wisdom, teaching and admonishing in psalms and hymns
and spiritual songs. Show your family that they are a priority in your life,
not by giving them whatever they want by using money or possessions to gain
influence but by taking time to talk about life. Open up to one another –
parent to child and child to parent. Bring each other closer to Jesus and
therefore closer to heaven. Use forgiveness regularly. There is no greater
gift. With all the things in life that we can’t take with us when we leave,
you’d think we’d give a high priority to the one thing we can bring to heaven –
each other. Yet, sharing and using the Word of God – the one thing needed, the
way of salvation, is matter of stability and fulfillment – not style and flash.
God’s gift of more in the gospel, His greater blessing, helps me trust that and
re-shapes the way I treat my family.
When it comes to society, I could tell you to
be the change you want to see and it wouldn’t be a bad thing. But I can give
you so much more than that. Give the world Jesus. It’s much simpler than trying
to do everything yourself and trying to constantly prove to people how good you
are. And what greater Friend can there be? A Savior – one who is not just
concerned about bread, water, and lilies of the field or the sparrows. But one
who has won heaven and a crown of life. One who speaks light and salvation.
Yes, give the world Jesus. What more do we need? Yet, He is not flashy or
stylish – He’s stable and fulfilling.
God is always about more. But it’s His more –
not ours. It’s about the gospel of Christ – an eternal blessing of sins
forgiven that only He can give. This blessing is for all – and it changes
everything about life. Thanks be to Christ, our Savior, for being stable when
we’re not, and for keeping us fulfilled. In His name and through His Word.
Ephesians 3:20-21 Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly
abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in
us, 21 to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations,
forever and ever. Amen.